So this is probably the best part of all of this. In the last week after paying off our last consumer/stupid debt, we've had a chance to reflect on what this means to us. We're less concerned about our position, although at the moment, one bad accident or job loss or something like that would be devastating. The feeling that we don't owe anyone (except the house) is so freeing and just so indescribable I know I'll never be able to get it down. The cars drive better, the clothes feel better, everything just seems easier.
Now this is not the time to get distracted again. We've already realized that this is one of th dangerous moments, when you could undo all you've tried to do. A purchase here a purchase there with "new found" money can rapidly lead you back down the path you have supposedly just managed to get off of. We've had our little oops moment this week, but managed to recover quickly and will not let it happen again. There's still that 'eye on the prize' you need to have. Just because the debt is gone doesn't mean you get to start spending like it's not coming back. It would love to take up residence again, but you have to continue to fight the urge to get out there and blow all your hard work on 'stuff'.
We've reached one milestone with our payoff of $13,300+ in debt. Now we get to shoot for the beginnings of true Financial Peace, by securing our future with savings and wiser choices than we made in the past.
I know that Dave Ramsey has his critics. I know that we didn't exactly follow his plan and we're still not exactly - I've ramped my 401(k) back up to 5% to get the full match from work already, before we get our 6 month EF done - and that will cause things to take longer. But we're beyond the emotional highs we needed on this I think, and now it's down to getting some things put in place to do what we want. Still, I have to give him a big credit for where we are. Tam's read the books, I've watched the videos and listened to the audio + radio shows. If you don't think you can do it - just listen to a Friday show where he takes debt-free call-ins. They are the most uplifting calls to hear and a large part of what has kept me focused.
So thanks to Dave, and our own hard work, we're on our way... and the feeling is quite wonderful.
Now this is not the time to get distracted again. We've already realized that this is one of th dangerous moments, when you could undo all you've tried to do. A purchase here a purchase there with "new found" money can rapidly lead you back down the path you have supposedly just managed to get off of. We've had our little oops moment this week, but managed to recover quickly and will not let it happen again. There's still that 'eye on the prize' you need to have. Just because the debt is gone doesn't mean you get to start spending like it's not coming back. It would love to take up residence again, but you have to continue to fight the urge to get out there and blow all your hard work on 'stuff'.
We've reached one milestone with our payoff of $13,300+ in debt. Now we get to shoot for the beginnings of true Financial Peace, by securing our future with savings and wiser choices than we made in the past.
I know that Dave Ramsey has his critics. I know that we didn't exactly follow his plan and we're still not exactly - I've ramped my 401(k) back up to 5% to get the full match from work already, before we get our 6 month EF done - and that will cause things to take longer. But we're beyond the emotional highs we needed on this I think, and now it's down to getting some things put in place to do what we want. Still, I have to give him a big credit for where we are. Tam's read the books, I've watched the videos and listened to the audio + radio shows. If you don't think you can do it - just listen to a Friday show where he takes debt-free call-ins. They are the most uplifting calls to hear and a large part of what has kept me focused.
So thanks to Dave, and our own hard work, we're on our way... and the feeling is quite wonderful.